we came across some guy and we hung out 3 x in two days. He text myself about everyday. On big date three, we kissed and I also held it to that particular. He nonetheless book afterwards but much less regularly. It was a week and a half (not too lengthy, but still) and then he has not expected me away once more.
Carry out I ask him what are you doing, do I just opt for it, or do I stop responding?
-Stacy (New Jersey)
Dr. Wendy Walsh’s response:
Since you have not had sex with him, there’s still a chance to prepare him to call instead of text. There’s a whole section in my future book, “The 30-Day appreciation Detox,” about how to teach men to end counting on text in relationships.
For now, reply to only 1 book you choose phone conversation, and cannot encourage him with a book again.
As he ultimately phone calls, reward him with a happy vocals rather than a sarcastic, “You figured out simple tips to dial a cell phone.”
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